DIY Activity
Worry Monster Jar
8 min
Emotional
Anxiety
Bedtime
Kids who can't fall asleep often have a tangle of worries playing in their head. The Worry Monster gives those worries somewhere to GO — outside their body, into the jar — so their mind can rest.
What you'll need
- A jar with a lid (mason jar works great)
- Construction paper for the 'monster face'
- Glue and markers
- Small scrap papers for writing worries
- A pencil kept near the jar
How to make it
- Decorate the jar with a friendly monster face — big mouth at the top.
- At bedtime, your child writes or draws one worry per paper.
- They 'feed' the worries into the monster's mouth (the jar).
- The monster 'eats' worries overnight so the child doesn't have to hold them.
- In the morning, decide together: throw them away, or talk through any that still feel big.
Tips & variations
- Younger kids can DRAW worries instead of writing.
- Let the monster have a name they pick.
- Never read the worries unless invited.
Why it helps
Externalizing worries — getting them OUT of the head and into a physical place — measurably reduces bedtime anxiety. The ritual signals 'we're done with this for tonight.'
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